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  • Hikigaya Hachiman's quote I Hate Nice Girls, Kindness Is a Lie My Teen Romantic Comedy SNAFU Yahari Ore no Seishun Love Comedy wa Machigatteiru My Teen Romantic Comedy SNAFU episode 5 Hello Friends Thank You For Watching This Video. Pls Like & Share ... !!! Comment ... !! Dont Forgot To Subscribe .... !!! Comment down your request I will definitely make a video about it. ? IMPORTANT? © All copyrights (Audio / Photo / Video) belong to their rightful owners. If you are an author and distribute your copyright infringement, please contact us, we will immediately delete the material. Keywords: #anime_quote #whatsappstatus #Bao_Rami, #Bao_Rami_Status, #best_quote #quote #hikigaya Very sad status, sad whatsapp status, sad whatsapp status video, sad whatsapp video, new sad status, new sad whatsapp status video, new whstapp stauts video, new sad whatsapp video, heart touching whatsapp status video, heart touching whatsapp status, heart touching whatsapp status video hindi, sad whatsapp status video song hindi, heart touching whatsapp status song, whatsapp status, whatsapp status video download, whatsapp love status video, whatsapp status, whatsapp love status, whatsapp status video 30 second new whatsapp status. Sad whatsapp status, whatsapp video status, whatsapp love status video, whatsapp status 30 seconds video, whatsapp status video cute whatsapp status videos, heart touching love story, new sad whatsapp status video,
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Комментарии • 275

  • @carlostrejoruiz260
    @carlostrejoruiz260 3 года назад +1119

    “If the truth is cruel, then lies must be kind. That’s why kindness is a lie”

    • @AmanKumar-nz5kl
      @AmanKumar-nz5kl 3 года назад +20

      Truth's not Always Cruel. imagine you becoming a millionaire and if you actually become.
      and kindness is not always a lie. some people are altruistic in nature. and makes a good environment, whereever they go. and don't take their words so seriously ( that's what I'll say cuz those words might feel something deeper for you than the person speaking them. )

    • @AmanKumar-nz5kl
      @AmanKumar-nz5kl 3 года назад +8

      @Nelumbo You'll caught up mate.
      'Even could surpass these texts above easily. Believe in yourself.'
      look, the line i just highlighted above can make you feel I'm a kind person, While maybe I'm not.
      So conclusion:- Don't believe in someone's sayings. Everything can be fake and Everything can be real ( In every way possible ).
      Words can easily be manipulated to make others feel bewildered or to clarify things. It depends who are using them and when with what reason behind using them.
      For more being able to critically think, watch Attack On Titan. And reply me the answer of the question:-
      Who is the enemy? and why?
      I'll check this comment in near years somewhen I'll be free from this race which I'm in.

    • @kindnessisalie5411
      @kindnessisalie5411 3 года назад +24

      @@AmanKumar-nz5kl While the truth of being a millionaire may not be cruel upfront. The process of becoming a millionaire is dreadful. From working 14 hours each day, for 7 days a week or gambling your last loose pocket change for a lottery ticket, one must loose themselves and their loved ones, one must sacrifice their soul, and live a banal, robotic life to achieve a title of a "millionaire". The cruelty of being a millionaire is the hidden truth that one must sacrifice a part of themselves to be a millionaire.

    • @AmanKumar-nz5kl
      @AmanKumar-nz5kl 3 года назад +2

      @@kindnessisalie5411 you're right mate

    • @beratpirbudak5639
      @beratpirbudak5639 3 года назад +7

      @@AmanKumar-nz5kl and that’s why my friend kindness is a lie

  • @aronsumisu6173
    @aronsumisu6173 3 года назад +747

    i honestly didn’t think id ever find something from an anime that would mirror my day to day life.

  • @bryanmassey3300
    @bryanmassey3300 3 года назад +541

    Throughout the series he be speaking facts that hit different

    • @lucashillyard6950
      @lucashillyard6950 3 года назад

      What anime

    • @kindnessisalie5411
      @kindnessisalie5411 3 года назад +23

      To be honest, this anime speaks on reality. The quotes are really meaningful

    • @EndgameThor16
      @EndgameThor16 3 года назад +5

      @@kindnessisalie5411 his speeches do be hitting a little too close to home

    • @f3perfectionist5
      @f3perfectionist5 3 года назад

      @@lucashillyard6950 snafu

    • @Ku9gami
      @Ku9gami 2 года назад +1

      @@lucashillyard6950 Oregairu

  • @sabishiihito
    @sabishiihito 3 года назад +374

    That's the problem with *outgoing* nice girls, since they are nice to everybody you can't tell if they like you or not. A *quiet* nice girl though...if she goes out of her way to talk to you that has more of a chance to mean something. A chance, never guaranteed though.

    • @justiny.burner5448
      @justiny.burner5448 3 года назад +26

      Dealt with this a while back..that’s why I always say “Don’t take what she says personally”

    • @LolliWANG505
      @LolliWANG505 3 года назад +7

      No it does not. If a quite nice girl goes out of her way to make time for you it can mean that she's desperate for attention. And I don't see that any better than a girl that is open and popular simply agreeing to hang out because it's polite.

    • @sabishiihito
      @sabishiihito 3 года назад +36

      @@LolliWANG505 if the quiet nice girl is only going out of her way to talk to *one* guy, how the heck can that be desperation? Desperate people want attention from anyone and everyone.

    • @animeintel6225
      @animeintel6225 3 года назад +3

      @@sabishiihito unless they are shy, but desperate. Both of you guys share valid points.

    • @TrulyCooler
      @TrulyCooler 3 года назад +12

      @@LolliWANG505 as a guy we can not tell if you are just being polite or if you have a crush. So if we think you have a crush but then find out you were just being polite it kind of breaks us

  • @MultiRoths
    @MultiRoths 2 года назад +121

    This anime was an unexpected gem. Became one of my favourites based on the facts this character speaks.

    • @SumitKumar-ll7yt
      @SumitKumar-ll7yt Год назад +1

      any similar anime recm?

    • @joesmom1385
      @joesmom1385 8 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@SumitKumar-ll7ytIf you’re looking for similar stuff based on the protagonist, then shows like Classroom of the Elite, Hyouka, and Bunny Girl Senpai I would def reccomend. Other shows that are also in the same genre and other similar shows that I would recommend would be stuff like ToraDora, kaguya-sama, horimiya, pet girl of sakurasou, monogatari series, your lie in April, and Re:Zero, they all are good shows worth a watch.

  • @TheNSN26
    @TheNSN26 3 года назад +318

    Yeah they are nice to everyone
    It's our curse to over think that we are someone special in her life
    Every word made sense

    • @TrulyCooler
      @TrulyCooler 3 года назад +11

      That's all I ever do is over think and it ruins a relationship whether it be friend or gf. Because "someone's who's been alone for so long doesnt fall for the same tricks twice"

  • @EdwardVelez
    @EdwardVelez 2 года назад +76

    "Niceness is a form of transaction." - My old boss

  • @ssjpikachu
    @ssjpikachu 3 года назад +132

    Honestly feel these words,,,

    • @giovannijuanes7314
      @giovannijuanes7314 2 года назад

      woooow sooo emo💀🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫omg your sooo coool omg are you okkkk omg emooooooooo ur so alone

  • @anthonypintorobinson6542
    @anthonypintorobinson6542 2 года назад +46

    "People who are nice to me are also nice to everyone else. I almost end up forgetting that. " 🙂

  • @unbotheredchris6283
    @unbotheredchris6283 3 года назад +183

    As someone who got wrecked by a nice girl, this shit hits hard.

    • @philjoseph3252
      @philjoseph3252 2 года назад +14

      Same here bro, but at the end of the day we got each other.
      Don't give up brahs! We all gonna make it

    • @shanqozz
      @shanqozz Год назад +3

      @@philjoseph3252 ok

    • @user-wc3dq6vc1g
      @user-wc3dq6vc1g Год назад +2

      same

    • @srikarvetcha8894
      @srikarvetcha8894 Год назад +6

      that's the problem. we always feel trapped under the illusion that just because somebody is nice to us they love us, not because they are obligated to be polite or understanding. I often fall under the same trap too. it's understandable to develop feelings but it might be unacceptable to expect something all the time.

  • @jorgetorres2731
    @jorgetorres2731 3 года назад +238

    I live a sad life and relate to this so much. I don’t think any girl takes me seriously but that could also be my fault. I just don’t know anymore, but that being said I’m gonna enjoy my alone time and continue to live every moment that life throws at me.

    • @SnowHelation
      @SnowHelation 3 года назад +15

      Same
      We just gotta keep our heads up King👑

    • @joanfuentes7189
      @joanfuentes7189 3 года назад +4

      Same my guy

    • @TrulyCooler
      @TrulyCooler 3 года назад +19

      I've always thought a girl would like me but then find out they just are hanging out with other guys treating them the same way.

    • @joanfuentes7189
      @joanfuentes7189 3 года назад +4

      @@TrulyCooler bro I felt the same way as well

    • @blackstorm6542
      @blackstorm6542 2 года назад +3

      I feel the same about girls and my wishes. I used to try but mistaking. I always used to hope but i gave up on them. Thats how i am now a days not even trusting my friends wich is also leading me in to a loner.

  • @weird3604
    @weird3604 10 месяцев назад +10

    Oregairu is one of the most realistic anime I have ever watched! There's a lot to learn from this masterpiece

  • @ragingsaviorkami9862
    @ragingsaviorkami9862 Год назад +32

    Damn. Like yeah, we are a bunch of lonely weaboos that don't even try to "fix ourselves", but in the long run, is it even worth it? Here I am, struggling through the NNN, and Ironically this video helped me with that resolve to just chill and keep going. It's odd.
    There's something so beautiful in struggling with loneliness(I'm not trying to romanticize it, it almost took my life last year), but then you realize you are not alone. We are all in this together. The "nice girls" can just stay away. I'm done at this point. No one can say I haven't tried, after my last relationship horribly ended 3 years ago(in me being cheated on), I decided to give women another shot, and all I faced was either rejection, or bullshit that makes you realise noone gives a fuck about you, they're not there for you, no, instead you are just there for them.
    Once I realized I am simply alone, this odd clarity came out of nowhere, hit me like a bullet. 'Is this inner peace, finally? Is this what it feels like?" I asked myself. Been some time since then. I can't say that I still don't get lonely sometimes, but once you accept that you are alone and simply need to learn how to enjoy your time like that in your own world, everything becomes much easier.

  • @encarnaciongonzalez3945
    @encarnaciongonzalez3945 3 года назад +49

    Sad thing is I don't even have any friends that text or call me anymore they were the nice ones too. I feel so alone and desperate that one time someone texted me after two weeks and I answered so quickly and they didn't respond for three days its been months now. I now think that I'm not worth anyone else's time to even think of me I miss that warm kindness and I feel a hole in my heart growing and consuming me. I'm always feeling like I'm going to be alone both with no love or friendship.

    • @dmonk926
      @dmonk926 2 года назад +1

      Stop being so concerned with people. You are a man, naturally only half inclined to be social to begin with, at most, and half inclined to THINGS. Be they objects (cars, boats etc), experiences or accomplishments. Find your thing bro. If you thing isnt too weird, more than likely friends and lovers will fall into place pretty easily

    • @masculineman123
      @masculineman123 2 года назад

      Instead of wasting time trying to get us to deny your insecurities or sympathize with you go open up to your family or try harder to find people you can rightfully call "loved ones".

    • @stephaniejohnson5361
      @stephaniejohnson5361 2 года назад +1

      stop being desperate and stop caring. When you think too much into it you start getting depressed which makes it harder for you to build connections. just live your life normally and stop caring and it will be WAYY easier to make more connections. just don't be overly serious or push people away

    • @blankspace5740
      @blankspace5740 Год назад +3

      Dude i know how it feels... I've lived most of my life being alone, no family nor do i have friends or girlfriend. It sure feels empty but this emptiness isn't that bad at all. But i won't recommend anyone, so just man up and go out talk to people... Don't end up like me, you'll find only darkness...

    • @yoboybigj875
      @yoboybigj875 Год назад

      Most people have social anxiety you just have to go out there and speak to people and not be afraid nobody going to not talk with you if your being quiet and shy..

  • @wingeroops
    @wingeroops Год назад +11

    When i first heard this. I got a awesome vibe. Rewatching it made me realise that its a perspective of a teenager which will alter when he grew up. These lines shows how much heart breaks he went through 💔

  • @leonelllo
    @leonelllo 3 года назад +24

    this hits harder when you do the same thing as a reaction to those nice girls

  • @kaydinnguyen8043
    @kaydinnguyen8043 3 года назад +38

    Why do I feel more down every since anime went in my life

    • @shhrage
      @shhrage 3 года назад +8

      Look Deep it's not the anime it's you're thinking

    • @kindnessisalie5411
      @kindnessisalie5411 3 года назад +10

      Because life is down, and there is nothing that can be done to change it. This is one of the few animes that speaks on reality. It helps one view the world for what it really is, a cruel and deceptive world.

  • @Shionsan12
    @Shionsan12 День назад

    I never would've thought that a fiction character will be the one who i admire the most and gives me words that really reflects my everyday life like hachiman did.

  • @Ku9gami
    @Ku9gami 2 года назад +9

    Everything he says is.. just so... so Genuine !

  • @benjiboy9907
    @benjiboy9907 3 года назад +93

    We’ve got a lot of incels in this comment section, so let me remind you guys that Hachiman is not implying that he is entitled to a girl’s feelings just because they show kindness to him. Rather, he is performing a self-deprecating and nihilistic self reflection, pointing saying that he has given up on hoping for kindness to be shown to him, since anyone who is kind to him is kind to anyone else, and he hates that kind of fakeness.

    • @nikhildominic1565
      @nikhildominic1565 3 года назад +30

      He is just speaking from experience. His low self worth, nihilism everything comes from experience. He isn't trying to sound cool or anything he is bitter, sad and lonely...

    • @Karma_Chorus
      @Karma_Chorus 3 года назад +8

      Ummm bruv he’s just saying that he doesn’t like nice girls cause you can’t tell if they like you romanticly or not y’all look too deep into shit

    • @Oath13K
      @Oath13K 3 года назад +6

      As if I needed more confirmation that the word incel has lost all meaning.

    • @OneEyedCloud01
      @OneEyedCloud01 3 года назад +21

      @@Oath13K Well, not in this context. People are twisting these words to justify hatred of girls in general. Hence entitled incel reasoning.

    • @joshualor7492
      @joshualor7492 3 года назад +1

      @@Karma_Chorus nah bruv ur just a 2head

  • @TrulyCooler
    @TrulyCooler 3 года назад +33

    I know its wrong to believe this but I just can't help it.. I always think I am special too someone even after just taking to them for a day and then realizing I'm just a friend and they were just being nice breaks me

    • @kindnessisalie5411
      @kindnessisalie5411 3 года назад +6

      But just like MC says, if truth is cruel, then lying must be kind. Its either you accept the cruelty of the truth and move on, or live in a lie, and find yourself unable to escape the deceptive fantasy.

    • @TrulyCooler
      @TrulyCooler 3 года назад +4

      @@kindnessisalie5411 😭i was in that state of just lieing to myself for awhile about a 3 months and then I recently started just accepting the truth

    • @f3perfectionist5
      @f3perfectionist5 3 года назад +1

      Just move on bro.... I got brozoned by the girl I like.... But still I'm happy I know it takes time but you'll get there..

    • @TrulyCooler
      @TrulyCooler 3 года назад +1

      @@f3perfectionist5 you may be happy but when I like a girl it is very rare because I go for very specific standards and when I see a girl fits all of those I then think she is the best bet

    • @jethrosamuel3221
      @jethrosamuel3221 2 года назад

      @@TrulyCooler that just means that you're a good person who wants a real friend, nothing else. you cant help it if all the people around u are morons , be happy that youre not like them

  • @tabish_246
    @tabish_246 2 года назад +4

    I hate nice girl's
    If they so much as say hello,
    It stays on my mind
    if they return my texts, my heart races.
    The day one calls me ,i know I'll look at my call history and grin
    But i know in my heart it just them being nice
    This line sure is 100%accruate

  • @Au_Ra11
    @Au_Ra11 2 года назад +8

    You can never tell if someone's just being nice or kind to you, I experienced this when was first interested in a girl, like 8man said, guys get the wrong idea just from being talked to, and that's exactly what happened to me.
    Luckily I didn't get rejected, cause I didn't have the balls to say how I feel, and when I heard rumors of the girl I liked about liking someone else, I asked her directly and she confirmed it.
    And that was when I stopped expecting things from people, until they truly show their true side, or their genuine side, then I can be comfortable to expect from them

  • @chvrogoldo8973
    @chvrogoldo8973 2 года назад +8

    Guys do not give up, 2 months ago , i were here , half-depressed, after the girl i loved play with my feeling, but recently a have met someone, à beautyfull and kind girl who make me sooooo Happy!! , and now i am so gratefull cause i deserve and got better than i wanted , so don’t give up it’s will be fine !

    • @AkSoL_e0
      @AkSoL_e0 2 года назад

      How is everything bro?

    • @chvrogoldo8973
      @chvrogoldo8973 2 года назад +1

      @@AkSoL_e0 oh i had totally forgotten this comment , holly 😂😂 , well bro , i am very happy with my actual girlfriend and i have totally forgotten the previous ( at least i do not have any feeling toward her) , she tried to keep me in her life but , honestly , i do not need him at all , i have forgiven him , and i am going forward ...Time always cure and make thing better when we actually want it !

    • @AkSoL_e0
      @AkSoL_e0 2 года назад

      @@chvrogoldo8973 As long as ur happy w who u are screw everyone else bro good job 😎

  • @SalmanM190
    @SalmanM190 3 года назад +29

    Never has an anime every made me use 100% of my brain except Oregairu. This show is honestly meant for intellectuals, you are guaranteed to be clueless or have a surface understanding of the show if you come in without actually paying attention.

    • @p.l.apostol640
      @p.l.apostol640 3 года назад +9

      Is this a rick and morty copypasta?

    • @kindnessisalie5411
      @kindnessisalie5411 3 года назад +1

      thought the same thing. I also recommend Classroom of the Elite if you're into realism. Got any good recommendations like this for me?

    • @SalmanM190
      @SalmanM190 3 года назад +1

      @@kindnessisalie5411 already watched and started reading CoTE, if you want a show with top tier realism, watch Re:Zero. I only started watching it last year and as you can see i made my whole account after it

    • @cloutarokujo3792
      @cloutarokujo3792 2 года назад +5

      Take your meds

    • @lilit3552
      @lilit3552 Год назад

      ​@Omar Bautista you are right, like how they imagine becoming friends? By being mean at first?😂

  • @erickbenjamin6699
    @erickbenjamin6699 3 года назад +11

    We all want to find ourselves in someone else, we want to be special to someone else cause when your special to yourself all your life. Your no longer special

  • @Kiyotaka_Ayanokoji.
    @Kiyotaka_Ayanokoji. 2 года назад +4

    What hachiman said here is quite true.. I know some people who undergo and have an experience same as him and hit in the mark on what he say here.

  • @goldenstate5023
    @goldenstate5023 2 года назад +24

    I confessed to the girl I like yesterday. We talked a lot, she was nice, we had a lot in common, we were even born in the same city. But after half a year of trying to hold back to not ruin this incredible friendship I did it… I said the words “I like you”… Of course she rejected me saying that I’m just a friend to her… She is even starting to ghost me. Fuck live… I can’t deal with this shit anymore

    • @aspebb
      @aspebb 2 года назад +13

      Better that than always wonder "what if"

    • @aryanpareek770
      @aryanpareek770 2 года назад +2

      Well if that makes her ghost a friend, then you just dodged a bullet mate.

    • @zionjones930
      @zionjones930 2 года назад +4

      you are not entitled to her. just because she was kind to you does NOT mean she is supposed to like you.
      she thought she made a friend and instead you disappointed her because you expected romance out of the friendship. stop being entitled, women do not owe you anything.

    • @zionjones930
      @zionjones930 2 года назад +2

      @Hitler Loves Anime nothing of substance to say, as expected

    • @reptahv1954
      @reptahv1954 Год назад

      @@zionjones930 True, but our friend here is upset that he is being ghosted instead of being confronted on the matter. He never said something about her owning him something, he probably just wants to keep her firendship. If she doesn't want to see him anymore that's ok, but she's just avoiding him instead of being clear.
      Of course he also can give her a proper goodbye, so both can take separate ways properly.

  • @darkikun4872
    @darkikun4872 3 года назад +13

    This is interesting cuz he have same feeling with me

  • @anak_kucing101
    @anak_kucing101 2 года назад +13

    Thank you Japanese animation for making me relate to real life experiences like solitude and the pursuit of a partner.
    Gracias animación japonesa por hacerme sentir identificado a experiencias de la vida real como la soledad y la búsqueda de una pareja.

  • @dark_matter1712
    @dark_matter1712 3 года назад +6

    All kindness has hidden lies.

  • @me_llamo_jeff
    @me_llamo_jeff 3 месяца назад

    this anime really explores the dark themes that some of us go through, its so relatable and part of the reason why it is such a good anime

  • @_despairty_1570
    @_despairty_1570 3 года назад +7

    If there’s welcoming and nice they’ll leave you and forget you

  • @okay6555
    @okay6555 11 месяцев назад +1

    Such a peak show. Wish there were new seasons

  • @nothingmuch1039e9
    @nothingmuch1039e9 2 года назад +1

    This hits on a different level

  • @Gemi_Gem
    @Gemi_Gem 2 года назад +5

    Talking facts must be one of his 108 skills

  • @JustTweety
    @JustTweety 3 года назад +14

    I hate nice girls. If they so much as say hello, it stays on my mind. If they return my texts, my heart races. The day one calls, I know I'll look at my call history and grin. But I know in my heart it's just them being nice. People who are nice to me are also nice to everyone else. I almost end up forgetting that. If the truth is cruel, then lies must be kind. That's why kindness is a lie. I gave up on always expecting it, always mistaking it, and even hoping for it. Someone who's worked so hard at being alone doesn't fall for the same trick twice. I'm a veteran at this. I'm the best there is when it comes to losing. That's why I'll always hate nice girls.

    • @EternalTenshiOfficial
      @EternalTenshiOfficial 2 года назад +1

      THANK YOU, i'm too lazy to type this to someone

    • @JustTweety
      @JustTweety 2 года назад

      @@EternalTenshiOfficial no problem bro 🍞

  • @pixelnightmare
    @pixelnightmare 3 года назад +7

    This hit hard

  • @blakekelly9155
    @blakekelly9155 3 года назад +18

    75% of women just want somebody cute or with the money why couldn’t I meet a girl from that other 25%😔

    • @MJ-gt8nf
      @MJ-gt8nf 3 года назад +5

      more like 95%

    • @sasinmo
      @sasinmo 2 года назад +1

      You can get a girl from a poor village in another country, you'll be the guy with money. 500 iq 😎

    • @lilit3552
      @lilit3552 Год назад

      Because you like 75% type of girls

    • @daquanwilliford6392
      @daquanwilliford6392 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@MJ-gt8nf more like 100%

  • @Sannuaki
    @Sannuaki 3 года назад +88

    Hey guys, remember that hachiman is insecure and self deprecating here. You shouldnt be entitled to a girl's feelings just because she is nice to you.

    • @vivi-fe5rj
      @vivi-fe5rj 3 года назад +22

      That was never said in the video, Hachiman is just rationalizing his stance towards a subgroup of people. How does that make him insecure? If anything, you're the bitter one - attacking people in the comments.

    • @Sannuaki
      @Sannuaki 3 года назад +5

      @@vivi-fe5rj This whole quote is irrational, how tf...... He's insecure because he thinks all kindness towards him isnt genuine and shit.

    • @NHDOreBros
      @NHDOreBros 3 года назад +41

      @@Sannuaki Yes Hachiman is insecure and yes he is self deprecating, but his rationality here isn't talking about entitlement, but about simply him not wanting to get hurt. He isn't so arrogant as to think he was entitled to anyone's time or attention, only hoping for it and being disappointed in the end. He's just a loner that yearns human connection and has never had it through out his entire life, he's constantly hoping that maybe, just maybe, he will get the connection he wants.
      By the end, he's just stopped hoping, thus culminating in this monologue.

    • @Chandfam7
      @Chandfam7 3 года назад +11

      Sure Hachiman is insecure and self deprecating but he’s not complaining about not being entitled to anyone’s feelings. All he’s saying is that he’s learned from experience that it’s hard to tell when affection and kindness in general are legit. At this point he’d rather avoid what he considers kindness since it’s only left him hurt or vulnerable....it has nothing to do with entitlement

    • @animeintel6225
      @animeintel6225 3 года назад

      @@Sannuaki it’s not thats why

  • @user-dx1xe3vs8p
    @user-dx1xe3vs8p 8 месяцев назад +1

    Depression is like a thing so get over it 😭😭😭 cheer up 😁😁😁

  • @Professor3022
    @Professor3022 2 года назад +4

    It is normal. If you expect every girl you have a crush will fall in love with you that is a bit narcissistic, isn't it?
    To hate is toxic. Just like girls when a guy' doesn't like them back, they would gossip too in the way that they feel about you not what reality is.

    • @cindeyta5410
      @cindeyta5410 Год назад

      I agree. It’s alright to grow feelings, but to blame the girl and downright hate her just sounds like someone got butthurt and couldn’t take a rejection.

    • @deerglx4732
      @deerglx4732 Год назад +1

      ​​@@cindeyta5410 I don't think it's the rejection that hurt him the most. Knowing Hachiman, he won't get hurt much by that. It's the fact that he misinterpreted something, acted on it, got shot down, AND GOT RIDICULED for it is what broke the deal for him. It's fine if he just got rejected; all men go through that at some point and he wouldn't be emotionally scarred as he is.
      It's not blaming the girl at all; it's blaming himself for always misunderstanding things and thus push the nice girls away because he is tired of discerning who is genuine and who is fake

    • @deerglx4732
      @deerglx4732 Год назад +2

      It is normal, yes, and Hachiman does not say "every girl should like me back". He is saying, "I am tired of misinterpreting other people's kindness so I'm shunning you away because I don't want to misconstrue it again and hurt myself in the process."
      And he does not hate them. He might say "hate", but deep down he does not hate them. He is just justifying his (arguably, rotten) mindset of shunning people away as to protect himself from more emotional damage.
      He changes for the better later on, though. He wants the genuine, which is what he found later on in the series (middle of Season 2, I think)

  • @Ketoky
    @Ketoky 2 года назад +2

    Sigma rule number one, never be a simp.

  • @jaseshackelford7796
    @jaseshackelford7796 5 месяцев назад

    I thrive off this…. It makes me feel something I never felt before! I guess because I truly and honestly feel the exact same 😞

  • @pankumehta2833
    @pankumehta2833 Год назад +1

    More the reason he loved yukinon shes not your average nice girl she is more than that!!!

  • @soaringsquid0.129
    @soaringsquid0.129 2 года назад +8

    Guys, watch the full anime. It'll make you feel better about, well, everything.

    • @Slaker_254
      @Slaker_254 2 года назад

      what is the name of the anime

    • @soaringsquid0.129
      @soaringsquid0.129 2 года назад

      @@Slaker_254 It's called Oregairu

    • @mrstranger6854
      @mrstranger6854 2 года назад +1

      yeah it was really good

    • @meandaddy1765
      @meandaddy1765 2 года назад

      Imma keep it a buck I watched it about a year ago and when I finished it I felt really sad for some reason 😅😅

  • @RedRebel008
    @RedRebel008 2 месяца назад

    Somehow, even though Hikigaya and I might have gone through Loss, our approaches are very distinct, but I still like to hear this speech, just don't know why??? Yet

  • @Fw.davion
    @Fw.davion 2 года назад +2

    So inspirational 😫😫

  • @BoltFlash
    @BoltFlash 2 года назад

    This is so true for me and the fact that this video was posted on my birthday too 😳

  • @muhammadarsybilhaqi5472
    @muhammadarsybilhaqi5472 2 года назад +2

    This quote is my life

  • @izme1756
    @izme1756 2 года назад

    One of my very special frnds which i lost once send this to me and so i ill always remember these words 😭

  • @demoncutter1674
    @demoncutter1674 Год назад

    First time I ever felt related to a character

  • @Calvin1985
    @Calvin1985 8 месяцев назад

    The YT search recommendation is “I don’t like nice girls,” and I clicked on it expecting to hear a parody of that London Yellow song 💀

  • @meandaddy1765
    @meandaddy1765 2 года назад +1

    Can’t wait for the day I can comment back on this comment and something like “I’m winning at life now” or “you’ll be happy eventually” but for now all I can do is hope

  • @Anvaya24
    @Anvaya24 11 месяцев назад

    This still hits different

  • @bigchris327
    @bigchris327 2 года назад +2

    So basically what I got from it is when nice girls talk to him they're not doing it because they want too, they're doing it to be nice in a way, am I missing anything

  • @Anvaya24
    @Anvaya24 2 года назад

    This guys hits different

  • @pansuweeb3474
    @pansuweeb3474 3 года назад +1

    It describes how I feel

  • @frostailking8590
    @frostailking8590 2 года назад +1

    Now kids we’ve learned what happens when you don’t touch grass

  • @AmanKumar-nz5kl
    @AmanKumar-nz5kl 3 года назад +5

    The truth is not always harsh and Not always kindness is a lie.
    It depends upon the perspectives, arising in the condition, and we can't prejudge the situation and apply the same formula everywhere. Even it's also insanely hard to judge the situation correctly.
    if any girl kr boy starts responding wrecklessly everytime without being the true self ( if she's basically having an altruistic nature ) Then she/ he becomes ARROGANT & EGOTISTIC.

  • @Tomcat_92
    @Tomcat_92 Год назад +1

    best MC ever

  • @HallOfPhonks
    @HallOfPhonks Год назад +1

    _"সতা যাদ নিঠুর হয় তবে মিথাাকে অবশাই দয়ালু হতে হবে |_
    _তাই দয়া মিথাা"_

  • @loveblank8171
    @loveblank8171 3 года назад +2

    How I feel everyday

  • @lilit3552
    @lilit3552 Год назад

    I am nice because I try to find my love in everyone I meet.

  • @fxcts5488
    @fxcts5488 3 года назад +1

    This hits hard

  • @cindeyta5410
    @cindeyta5410 Год назад +4

    I love how it’s suddenly a bad thing for people to be nice to others

    • @zander1896
      @zander1896 Год назад +11

      Hachiman's been alone his entire life and struggles to cope with rejection. He can't differentiate people who genuinely like him and the ones who are just being courteous. He's got an inferiority complex that's fueled by self-loathing and avoids people like the plague because he's tired of misconstruing people's emotions. He's wanted a genuine relationship with zero strings attached since the start, but he thinks it's impossible.

    • @deerglx4732
      @deerglx4732 Год назад +2

      It's not "bad" per se. Without watching the anime, it's hard to get the gist of it but hear me out:
      Hachiman means the exact opposite of this monologue. Hachiman is a guy who is tired of misinterpreting other people's emotions whether they genuinely like him or they are just "nice" to him. It is a struggle all men are going through at some point in their life. Spoilers though, he confessed to a girl, got rejected, and was even ridiculed by that girl and her friends just because he misinterpreted the kindness that she gave him. He resigned himself from that fate and started pushing away nice people because he thinks that nice people are only there approaching him because society obliges them to (to which it's not). He doesn't want anything to do with nice girls because he's tired falling for all of it and misinterpreting it and getting hurt again.
      Hachiman is broken to the point that he had erected barriers between him and other people. He thinks of himself as the lowest of the lowest, does social s**cides where he self-deprecates and self-sacrifices himself socially, and he does not fit in.

    • @lonehawk3164
      @lonehawk3164 Год назад

      ​@zander1896 it is impossible in this day and age though.. especially when past experiences where you open up to people reveal your weaknesses. Makes it hard to move further.

  • @hazzezzs
    @hazzezzs 3 года назад +1

    This is how mere images of teens are born

  • @shrekisbae2508
    @shrekisbae2508 2 года назад +1

    now I feel bad for trying to make someone happy

  • @codezero4713
    @codezero4713 Год назад

    Man that's some deep shit right there

  • @akihikoena595
    @akihikoena595  3 года назад +9

    ruclips.net/video/pdAupuLvwR8/видео.html
    Hachiman :- l love myself,
    My high specs, my half decent looks,
    My pessimistic, realist point of view.
    I don't hate any of it at all. But, for the first time,

    • @areusi2221
      @areusi2221 3 года назад

      How is this background music called? I've been searching whole youtube for it. Please help

  • @rarepikachuhdl1748
    @rarepikachuhdl1748 3 года назад +1

    True

  • @littleking5546
    @littleking5546 4 года назад +3

    Me toooo.....

    • @Sannuaki
      @Sannuaki 3 года назад

      Then youre an insecure, self deprecating nihilist. The only pain youre feeling is inflicted upon yourself.

    • @chro0oz764
      @chro0oz764 3 года назад +4

      @@Sannuaki look you're not wrong but you're not going to help anybody by doing this it will just make them more insecure and make them run away from their problems

    • @Sannuaki
      @Sannuaki 3 года назад +1

      @@chro0oz764 Yes I agree I used a harsh approach. Apologies.

  • @wompwomp28828
    @wompwomp28828 Год назад

    His best lines are at the s1 ep 1 at the first minutes

  • @gabrielvelasco6797
    @gabrielvelasco6797 Год назад

    Makes me wonder how Hachiman would react to Ai Hoshino.

  • @domana
    @domana 3 года назад +6

    would i allowed to put this in my song?

  • @TRKZay
    @TRKZay Год назад +1

    Sheesh. I get anime does hit with reality but shit. Everyone is so caught in not needing each other it’s annoying. I had this mindset. I simply broke away from everyone (family and friends wise) I realized there are things about myself that I must change to be with someone. I was clingy. I was aggressive and short tempered. I was violent and quick to wrath. A lot of people don’t like what they attract not knowing it’s a way of you being shown the mirror. Because relationships between a man n woman are a one mindset thing. If both your minds aren’t equally yoked, they are bound to fail. It won’t last. There’s no 50/50. No 100/100. There’s roles. Accept them both as men n women. As a man you’re gonna have to fight the world and provide some sort of stability and security for your woman. As a woman, understand you’re no longer number one. It’s not about making you happy. There are things you have to put to the side for the sake of the relationship. Both of you. You’re a team. But there must be a leader. Men understand rather you like it or not she’s gonna depend on you to lead. But women understand that he needs your support to accomplish what you guys have set out. In doing this you find time for each other. You enjoy each other’s company. You become not just lovers but friends. What I mean by that is looks fade away and age settles in. It’s that time you guys spent building a bond together that keeps the longevity of relationships. Speaking only from the advice given to me by older men n women with years of wisdom n marriage. In fact I got married last year n met my wife when we were 19. I’m 23 now. We went to the same HS and middle school but never spoke to each other. In fact she knew one of my younger sisters. (I’m 4 months older than my wife). The foundation of a relationship is the bond built. Not by sex, finances, and appearances. There’s nothin wrong with those things but don’t just look for those in the relationship. It takes work. Trials and tribulations come in relationships. Never step out of the relationship when it gets hard. Always work together to get through it. Build yourself up as a man first. Then you can build her up. As a woman your femininity is key. No man wants to be with another man (unless he swings that way). Take head of it. Apply it to yourselves fellas n ladies. It takes hardwork. Good luck

  • @cattodoggu5560
    @cattodoggu5560 Год назад

    a girl once told me she loved me asked me which girl i liked and said hi everyday surely she was just being nice so i ignored her and moved on with my life after that after all she was just being nice no way ill be fooled

  • @mrstranger6854
    @mrstranger6854 2 года назад +1

    listening to it makes me clearheaded.....weird....i just listen to it on a loop

  • @Khaled-bn2qg
    @Khaled-bn2qg Месяц назад

    WHAT is the Name of this sweet melody ? 0.36

  • @p.l.apostol640
    @p.l.apostol640 3 года назад +1

    Reminder that these words come from a broken individual.

    • @ryanruiz3494
      @ryanruiz3494 2 года назад +1

      wait so if I relate to this that means I'm broken

    • @p.l.apostol640
      @p.l.apostol640 2 года назад

      @@ryanruiz3494 yeah pretty much

    • @ryanruiz3494
      @ryanruiz3494 2 года назад

      @@p.l.apostol640 damn

  • @asleepydude5941
    @asleepydude5941 11 месяцев назад

    This is true for Hachiman because he is longing for someone who has acceptance of who he truly is:
    a realistic guy who is easily attached to “nice things”
    Pushes people away on self defense. He doesn’t lack self esteem but lacks confidence of expressions.
    He wanted someone who can see past his front and see through his “mask” of a ugly person. That even through all his awful youth, there exists a hachiman who wanted to experience love from someone who understands him on a personal basis.
    I think this is why he didn’t choose Yui. He knew she didn’t understand him, just puts up with him because she loves him. Versus Yukino who loved him for his nature, she knows he has a ugly attitude and horrible expression of feelings but understands where it came from and loved him regardless because she too went through the same things and understands what he had to do to be in a position of “normality”
    His stagnant view of the social world of his school was a self defense because of being left alone.
    Which is something that most people don’t understand what it feels like because like what hachiman says, we all find cliques and groups to belong to, no matter how small it is.

  • @coreyondavis6032
    @coreyondavis6032 2 года назад

    Looking back at my high school years. They were only being nice and I hate it

    • @YatashaPenguin
      @YatashaPenguin Год назад +1

      Lmao cry me a river. Guys be like:

    • @coreyondavis6032
      @coreyondavis6032 Год назад +1

      @@YatashaPenguin some cry rivers, others just dont care and ignore those "nice girls"

  • @seshajelmaanularhitamtahks8275
    @seshajelmaanularhitamtahks8275 2 года назад

    Same dude same

  • @winerofall
    @winerofall 2 года назад +1

    I wish I have these experience before. And didn't have to find it, the hard way.
    Some of us are clueless when it's come to relationship, and there is no short answer to our mistake or our sadness. even when we speak the truth, our emotion are our own. every experience count.
    Even come from anime

  • @jadejabrijrajsinh8610
    @jadejabrijrajsinh8610 Год назад

    Sir this is a mcdonalds

  • @christosgeorg6204
    @christosgeorg6204 2 года назад

    I related so much

  • @PinkGoku955
    @PinkGoku955 Год назад

    But being nice to everyone is just a thing

  • @toongamer2810
    @toongamer2810 Год назад

    We all got a serious case of oneitis, or whatever it's called

  • @nighteclipse_1999
    @nighteclipse_1999 9 месяцев назад

    This main character is like me

  • @arjunrj6978
    @arjunrj6978 5 месяцев назад

    Madhira uchiha😊

  • @ThoughtsOrange
    @ThoughtsOrange 2 года назад

    Gotta hate that loneliness at 17

  • @legendaryrogue5517
    @legendaryrogue5517 3 года назад

    Wow I never seen this anime.. but those words hit so cold. Gonna start watching it. Whats the anime name?

  • @kxryyn
    @kxryyn 3 года назад

    I have the same taste your not alone

  • @limnxle4566
    @limnxle4566 2 года назад

    Fr that’s what I’m saying

  • @CsMsLady80
    @CsMsLady80 8 месяцев назад

    0:20

  • @kyleraustin1479
    @kyleraustin1479 3 года назад +1

    What is the ost calles

  • @anjimzzz8877
    @anjimzzz8877 3 года назад +1

    Is that reason why hiki not like yui?... Cause she is nice (just like hiki said about her?

    • @Ian-rd7vj
      @Ian-rd7vj 2 года назад +1

      No. It's just hatchiman are given Up with nice girls. Remember the one he like when he was in middle school? Orimoto? She is nice to him then hatchiman though that she likes him so he confess then got rejected so he just given up. Hatchiman doesn't like "fake kindness".

  • @movie_sign
    @movie_sign 3 года назад

    This... ALL DAY THIS....

  • @sapnathakurjha9433
    @sapnathakurjha9433 Год назад

    Bro this speech hit me like a dam truck

    • @AriSumi-o2y
      @AriSumi-o2y 11 месяцев назад

      It's one of the worst quotes out there. Like kindess being a lie and trurth being cruel? Don't take this trash quote to heart. Not everyone pretends to be someone they're not, some people just enjoy being kind, and sometimes the truth can hurt sometimes, but people will tell you the truth out of the kindness of their hearts. MC was being creepy and got told no so many times and now he thinks truth is cruel? get over it.

  • @bigbad2319
    @bigbad2319 Год назад +1

    Anime?